the Decision breakthrough INTENSIVE

Begin Your Come Back Stronger Journey with a 90 Min Intensive session

You've held everything together for everyone else. Now it's time to rebuild your life with clarity, confidence and a plan that actually works

Hi, I’m DEIRDRE

YOUR COME BACK STRONGER COACH

I support women through separation to heal money wounds, regain confidence, and step forward with clarity.

If you’ve ever felt like a breakup or separation knocked the ground out from under you — emotionally, financially, or both — you are not broken. You are in a moment of recalibration.

My work exists to support women at this exact crossroads.

I am a relationship and money coach for women who are rebuilding their lives after separation or divorce.

You don't need to figure out your whole life today.

You need to know what to do next.

A private 90-minute strategic intensive for women navigating separation or divorce who are stuck on one decision, conversation or situation—and need clear thinking, a grounded plan and a next move they can trust.

Book my Decision Breakthrough 90-minute private session · €297

You've thought about it from every angle.

You've replayed the conversation.

You've made the list.

You've asked people you trust.

And somehow, you're still no clearer. Because when the decision affects your money, your children, your home, your relationship or your future… it doesn't feel like "just a decision." It feels like everything depends on getting it right.

The Decision Breakthrough Intensive™ gives you 90 focused minutes to get the situation out of your head, identify what is actually driving the overwhelm and turn it into a clear course of action.

One issue. One focused session. One clear next move.

You're not indecisive.

You're trying to make an important decision while carrying too much at once.

Separation changes the context around almost every decision you make. Something that once would have felt manageable suddenly comes tangled with:

MoneyChildrenYour ex-partnerSolicitorsFamily opinionsFear about the futureWhat happened in the pastWhat could happen nextThe pressure to make the right choice

So you go around the same loop. More thinking doesn't create more clarity. It often creates more noise.

What you need is a way to separate the actual decision from everything emotionally attached to it. That's what we do here.

  • This is the issue.
  • This is what matters.
  • This is what I'm doing next.

Tap to see the shift.

90 minutes to stop the spiral and start leading.

We take the situation apart until your next move becomes clear.

You may not need months of coaching. You may not be ready to rebuild every area of your life. You may simply need someone outside the situation who can help you slow the noise down, see what matters and think strategically about what comes next.

During our session, we focus on one core issue. Not ten. Not your entire divorce. The decision, conversation or situation taking up the most mental space right now.

Together, we identify what's actually happening, what's within your control, what requires action and what doesn't deserve another hour of your energy.

Then we turn that clarity into a plan. Not vague insight. Not a list of things to think about. A plan you can use when the call ends.

Help me get clear

This is for the moment when…

You know something has to change, but you can't see your cleanest move.

Perhaps you're trying to decide… (tap any that sound like you)

Or perhaps the problem is harder to name. You simply know you're stuck.

And every day you postpone the decision, it's still running quietly in the background. Taking your energy. Interrupting your sleep. Making every other decision feel heavier.

The goal of this session is not to solve every problem in your life. It's to resolve enough uncertainty around this one that you can move again.

What happens inside the Decision Breakthrough Intensive™

We don't spend half the call figuring out why you're there.

We find the decision underneath the overwhelm.

Together, we will:

What do you actually know? What are you assuming? What belongs to someone else?
Because what looks like ten different problems is often one unresolved decision creating pressure everywhere else.
We bring your attention back from other people's reactions and onto the choices that are actually yours.
We work through the realistic options and what each one requires from you.
If a conversation is part of the problem, we'll work out what needs to be said clearly and calmly.
You leave knowing what happens first, what happens next and what can wait.

This is coaching and strategic decision support. It does not replace independent legal, financial or therapeutic advice where that is required.

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The shift is simple.

From ten thoughts competing for attention to one grounded direction.

You arrive thinking:

"I don't know what the right thing to do is."

And instead of trying to force an instant answer, we create enough distance to see the situation clearly.

That is where the breakthrough happens. Not because somebody makes the decision for you. Because you can finally hear your own judgement again.

  • What is fact?
  • What is fear?
  • What matters most?
  • What outcome are you actually trying to protect?
  • What is yours to decide?
  • What can wait?
  • And what needs to happen next?

This is not about handing your power to another person.

The decision still belongs to you.

I am not here to tell you how to live your life. And I am not here to make legal or financial decisions on your behalf.

My role is to help you think differently when you are too close to the situation to see it cleanly. To question what needs questioning. To notice what you're overlooking. To separate a genuine problem from an imagined future. To bring you back to what matters. And to help you turn what feels complicated into something you can actually move through.

The outcome I want isn't:

"Deirdre told me what to do."

It's:

"I know why I'm making this decision—and I trust myself to make it."

Imagine the decision no longer following you around.

The relief isn't only knowing what to do. It's getting your mental space back.

Imagine finishing our call and no longer needing to run the same conversation through your head.

  • Knowing what your next move is.
  • Knowing what needs to be said.
  • Knowing what can wait until later.
  • Knowing which fear belongs in the decision—and which one doesn't.

You may still have things to deal with. But you're no longer dealing with all of them simultaneously in your head. You have direction. And direction changes how everything feels.

You stop reacting to the situation. You start leading yourself through it.

The Decision Breakthrough Intensive™ is for you if…

You don't need more opinions. You need clarity you can act on.

This is a strong fit if:

  • One decision or situation is consuming far too much mental energy.
  • You're caught between several options and can't see the cleanest way forward.
  • You need to prepare for an important conversation or negotiation.
  • You want a structured outside perspective before making a significant move.
  • You keep second-guessing a decision you've almost made.
  • Everything feels urgent and you need help identifying what actually matters first.
  • You're not ready for longer-term coaching but you cannot keep drifting.
  • You've completed deeper coaching and want focused support around one new challenge.

This is probably not the right fit if you're looking for:

  • Ongoing emotional processing
  • Legal advice
  • Financial advice
  • Mediation
  • Someone to make the decision for you

This session exists for one very specific reason: to help you get clear enough to move.

What could change in 90 minutes?

Sometimes progress doesn't require more time. It requires better thinking.

You could spend another two weeks revisiting the same decision.

  • Open another browser tab.
  • Ask another friend.
  • Draft another message and delete it.
  • Wake up at 3am and think about it again.

Or you can give the issue 90 minutes of focused attention—with someone whose only job in that moment is to help you see it clearly.

There is enormous relief in finally knowing:

This is the issue.
This is what matters.
This is what I'm doing next.

I want my next move
Deirdre Griffin at her desk

Meet Deirdre

Your Come Back Stronger™ Coach

I'm Deirdre Griffin.

I work with capable women navigating separation and divorce who may look as though they're holding everything together—but privately feel overwhelmed by the number and weight of the decisions in front of them.

My work brings together strategic thinking, emotional steadiness, self-trust and practical forward movement. Because I've seen how easily women can lose confidence in their own judgement during major life transitions. Not because they suddenly became incapable. Because there is simply too much happening at once.

When we work together, I'm not looking to give you another opinion to carry. I'm helping you clear away enough noise to recognise your own strongest decision.

The Decision Breakthrough Intensive™ is the most focused way to experience that work.

One situation. One session. A clear way forward.

Your investment

One private session. Immediate direction.

The Decision Breakthrough Intensive™
€297

Your intensive includes:

  • 90-minute private 1:1 video session
  • Pre-session strategic intake
  • Focus on one core issue, decision or conversation
  • Written action summary
  • Prioritised next steps
  • Communication guidance where appropriate
  • 30-day direction plan
  • Optional 48-hour voice-note follow-up for urgent clarification
Book my Decision Breakthrough — €297

How it works

  1. 1
    Book your session.

    Choose your available session time and secure your intensive.

  2. 2
    Complete your strategic intake.

    Give me the essential context beforehand so our 90 minutes can be used for the work that matters.

  3. 3
    We meet and get clear.

    We focus on the decision, separate the noise from the facts and build your way forward.

  4. 4
    Your written plan follows.

    You'll receive your action summary and next-step direction within 48 hours.

Simple. Focused. Useful.

"But can one session really make a difference?"

One session isn't designed to rebuild your life. It's designed to unlock movement.

If you have one specific issue keeping you stuck, yes—a focused session can create significant clarity.

That doesn't mean every element of your separation will suddenly be solved. It means you stop carrying this decision as an unresolved problem.

For some women, that's exactly what they need. For others, the Decision Breakthrough Intensive™ becomes the first step into deeper work. Either outcome is valid.

You don't need to commit to twelve weeks because you need help with Tuesday. Start with the support the situation actually requires.

Frequently asked questions

Everything you need before you make your decision.

No. This is a focused coaching and strategic decision-making session. We may acknowledge the emotions affecting a situation, but the purpose is to create clarity, direction and an actionable next step.
No. I may challenge your thinking, help you evaluate your options and point out patterns or assumptions you may not be seeing, but the decision remains yours. The aim is stronger self-trust—not dependence on someone else's judgement.
We can discuss how a legal or financial issue is affecting your decision-making, prepare questions you may need to ask your solicitor or financial professional, and work on how you communicate around the issue. I do not provide legal or regulated financial advice.
We'll identify which issue is creating the greatest pressure or blocking progress elsewhere and focus there. If what you really need is a wider strategic plan across several areas, the Divorce Clarity Day™ may be a better fit.
If you're ready to rebuild your confidence, financial self-trust, boundaries, identity and future—not simply solve one immediate problem—Come Back Stronger™ is the deeper 12-week experience.
That's okay. You don't need to diagnose it before you arrive. Give me the situation in your intake and we'll identify where the real pressure point is together.
Your written action summary and 30-day direction are delivered within 48 hours of our session.

You don't need to be certain about your whole future.

You just need enough clarity to make the next strong decision.

You have probably spent a long time trying to think your way out of this. Perhaps you keep telling yourself: "I'll know what to do when things calm down." But sometimes things calm down because you decide what to do.

This is your opportunity to stop carrying the decision everywhere with you.

To put it on the table.

Look at it properly.

Separate the fear from the facts.

Decide what deserves your energy.

And leave with a plan you trust.

You don't need another week of spinning. You need your next move.

Book my Decision Breakthrough

The Decision Breakthrough Intensive™ · 90 minutes · Private 1:1 · €297

This can be the first step of your Come Back Stronger™ journey.

You are not starting over. You are learning to lead your life from a stronger place.

Sometimes that begins with rebuilding everything. Sometimes it begins with one decision.

Let's make this one clear.

Yes — I'm ready to get clear
€297
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